I was dating a bisexual

I feel reassured and awesome that he has chosen me, as well as his female partner. Some people differentiate between their orientation and their behavior. A person of good, upstanding character won't cheat, whether they're bisexual, gay, or heterosexual. It depends on whether or not you would like him to kiss you. If you feel you cannot accept this, then do not enter into the relationship. They are just like everyone else. Just like anyone else, they are more than capable of committed relationships.

I could attempt to rationalize my cheating and say that I did it because I thought that, as a bisexual, he would rebound fast with a girl or hit his larger playing field with a vengeance. If she ends up with one gender, that doesn't mean she's not still attracted to multiple genders. Some people who are attracted to all genders identify as pansexual. If she marries a woman, still bisexual. Bisexual people cannot choose to be straight, nor are they just denying that they are gay; they have about as much choice when it comes to who they are attracted to or fall in love with as anyone else. And most important: He was not a cheater.

If she's not interested, you just have to accept it and move on. If you don't feel reassured and safe, it may be a relationship that needs to end. Jul 4, Three years after we broke up, the lessons my bisexual ex-boyfriend taught me still ring true. It's really nothing to get hung up about.